SUNDAY
DRIVE
Family Huddle + 3 Move Method
For fathers in the slow lane
You're either working and feeling guilty, or with your kids and anxious about falling behind. 15 minutes every Sunday. 3 focused moves every week. That's it.
You Know That Moment
I know damn well you know the Sunday panic.
Let’s make it a bit calmer going into the new week:
Your kids know what's happening without asking.
47 tasks in your head or scattered notes become 3 focused moves.
And your partner isn't carrying the mental load alone.
So that you can stop feeling guilty and start feeling present.
You're tired. But more than that, you're tired of being tired.
Have you noticed this?
When things feel chaotic, you add a system. The system works for two weeks. Then it falls apart. So you feel like YOU failed. Like you're not disciplined enough. Like you're the problem.
You're not the problem. The system is over-designed.
If you’re like me you’ve tried: Elaborate morning routines. Meal planning apps. Chore charts. Multiple productivity tools. Date night schedules. Exercise tracking. Business task managers.
All of them require mental energy. None of them talk to each other. All of them eventually fail.
This isn't a discipline problem. It's a design problem.
The Pattern You're Stuck In
THIS ISN'T THEORY
THIS IS WHAT I ACTUALLY DO EVERY WEEK
Three months ago, I was exhausted. Not physically tired. mentally exhausted.
My wife and I coordinated like roommates who share a house, not like partners building a life.
For work and my business, I'd stare at my task list, freeze, and jump on Instagram. 17 things. All "urgent." None moving the needle.
Guilty when working. Anxious when with my kids. Never winning.
So I tried adding MORE systems. Fancier productivity apps. Elaborate morning routines. Complex task management. More optimization, more tracking, more structure.
more. more. MORE. (cue Billy Idol)
Using my product management experience, I stripped it all back.
Sunday breakfast, 15 minutes:
What we enjoyed last week
Our schedules for the week ahead
Things that need to be done around the house
Family engagements, practices, appointments
Meal ideas
Monday Morning, 3 Moves:
Instead of keeping everything in my head, I track and focus on three things that move me forward:
One Foundation move (builds the business)
One Visibility move (attracts people)
One Money move (generates revenue)
What changed:
The mental load is still there, I won't bullshit you. But it puts less pressure on me, my wife, and even the kids because they're invested too.
I'm not scattered. I'm not wondering if my wife knows the plan. I'm not holding 31 tasks in my brain.
We designed it together. We all know what's happening.
WHAT YOU’RE GETTING
THE FAMILY HUDDLE PLAYBOOK
Learn how to get everyone aligned in 15 minutes
So that Sunday panic becomes Sunday calm.
What's included:
The 5-step process we use every Sunday
How to run it with young kids (even toddlers)
What to do when your partner is resistant at first
Templates you can actually use
How to handle it when routines get disrupted
Why it works: Your kids are part of the plan. Your partner isn't carrying the mental load alone. Nobody's surprised by Thursday.
THE 3 MOVE METHOD PLAYBOOK
Choose the three things each week that actually matter
So that 47 tasks become 3 focused moves that get done.
What's included:
The three categories that matter (Foundation, Visibility, Money)
How to know if you're being realistic with your time
What to do when everything feels urgent
Weekly tracker you can use immediately
The reality check that prevents over-commitment
Why it works: You complete things. You know what to say no to. You stop carrying everything in your head.
5-Day Email Course
So that you're not staring at PDFs wondering where to start
What's included:
Day 1: Setting up your first Family Huddle
Day 2: Running it with your family (the real script)
Day 3: Choosing your first 3 moves
Day 4: Making both work together
Day 5: Troubleshooting what's not working
Private Community Access
So that you're not figuring this out alone
Other dads implementing these alongside you. Ask questions. Share wins. Get support when stuck.
Access through December 31.
The In-Person Celebration
So that this isn't just another online thing that fades out
At the end of the first month, we will schedule an in-person meetup for those in the area.
Bring your kids and meet at a park. Or just dads at a brewery or coffee shop. We'll decide together based on what the group wants.
Mark the accomplishment. Meet the other fathers face-to-face. Share what worked, what didn't.
This is optional. If you're not local or can't make it, no pressure. The frameworks and community are valuable on their own. The meetup is a bonus for those who want to connect IRL.
$67
In January, group coaching with these frameworks launches at $297.
This is the self-implementation version.
That's less than a trip to the movies. Less than one therapy session. Less than the productivity app subscription you forgot to cancel.
HERE'S THE TRUTH ABOUT BEING A FATHER WHO'S BUILDING SOMETHING:
You're either working and feeling guilty, or with your kids and anxious about falling behind.
It's the impossible choice between showing up at home and showing up at work.
And every system you try just adds more to your mental load.
What if the problem isn't you?
What if it's that your system is over-designed?
This Is For You If:
You have young kids (under 12).
You're in early stages of building a business or side project.
You understand time and space are a luxury.
You're tired of choosing between showing up at home and showing up at work.
You want simple, not complicated
You're actually willing to try something different
Here's the truth: There's never balance.
But there's understanding how we use our time and energy to be fulfilled.
This Isn’t For You:
If you're looking for motivation without changing behavior
If you want someone to do it for you
If you need it to be complicated to feel like it's working
If you're just browsing
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You get immediate access. PDFs hit your inbox. You join the community.
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Day 1 of the email course. You start setting up your first Family Huddle.
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You spend 15 minutes with your family during breakfast. See what happens.
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You choose your first 3 moves. Not 27 things. Three.
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Your partner notices you're less scattered. Your kids know what's happening without asking.
You completed three things instead of making partial progress on twenty.
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You've been through the holidays with a system that held up during chaos.
Your kids remember you were present, not distracted.
What actually happens
Questions You're Asking
What if my wife/partner won't participate?
Start solo. Run it yourself for 2-3 weeks. Most partners see it working and want in. The framework makes it easy to invite them when they're ready. My wife was skeptical at first too. "Another system?" Now she reminds ME if I forget.
What if my kids are too young?
My 2-year-old participates as much as she can. My 5-year-old fully participates and loves having a role. The framework adapts to any age. You modify it to fit YOUR family.
I'm already using other productivity systems. Why this?
This probably simplifies what you're doing. Most systems optimize for volume. This optimizes for completion. Most systems are designed for 60-hour work weeks, hustle, work, work, work. This is designed for fathers with 5 hours or 20 hours max. It's not another layer. It's a replacement for the overcomplicated stuff.
What if urgent things come up?
They will. That's life. The 3 Move Method doesn't mean you ignore everything else. It means you have clarity on what actually matters. When urgent stuff hits, you know what you're trading off. You're not just reacting mindlessly.
Do I have to start immediately?
No. You get instant access. Implement at your pace. Start the Family Huddle on the following Sunday. Most choose their first 3 moves the following Monday. No deadline. No pressure.
What happens after December 31?
In January, I'm launching group coaching for deeper implementation. You'll get first access to early pricing if you want it. Zero pressure. Zero obligation.
The Real Cost Isn't $67
The real cost is spending another 10 weeks exactly like the last 10 weeks.
Exhausted. Scattered. Guilty no matter what you choose.
Sunday nights scrambling. Monday mornings staring at that damn list. Your partner is asking questions you don't have answers to. Your kids not knowing what's happening this week.
And then the holidays hit and it gets worse.
Thanksgiving chaos. The family visits. Year-end work crunch. School breaks.
Don’t be the dad who is smiling on the outside but going through it internally.
Let’s do something different.
Your kids won't remember how many tasks you completed. They'll remember if you were present. That's what matters.
P.S.
THE PERMISSION YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR:
You're allowed to do less. Not because you're lazy. Because focused is better than scattered.
You're allowed to keep it simple. Not because you're giving up. Because simple systems actually work.
You're allowed to believe you're not the problem. The system is over-designed. Systems can be redesigned.
You don’t always have to drive in the fast lane. Enjoy the Sunday Drive.
$67. Two frameworks. Other dads are implementing alongside you.
Less guilt. More presence. Designed for fathers in the slow lane.
In January, I'm launching group coaching with these frameworks for $297. Early Access will be $197. This self-implementation version won't be available after December 31. If you want first access to coaching, this is your entry point.